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writes: Hello, please advise me. I am a 26yr old male. I have been living with my girlfriend for the last month and a half. We have been together for 10 months. Our relationship seems to be going from excellent to bad. The problem is when ever she gets around or goes out with a certain friend, she totally changes towards me. She lies to me, she talks down to me. This in turn makes me feel that I cannot trust her. The friend she goes out with has the attitude of being quite a naughty girl, i.e Sees and sleeps with different men, goes clubbing a lot, does alot of drugs etc. Please advise me, as I am at a dead end. I don't want to lose her, but then again I haven't got the power to walk away, and move out. She says all the time she loves me, and that she's lucky to have me, but as I say as soon as her party vibe gets hold of her she's a different person. What would you do?...
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reader, dan102938 +, writes (16 May 2005):
I'd ask her to try not to hang out with the friend that much and see how she acts differently. When she is acting bad and good and just see what she says and see if you can talk to the friend about the infuence on your g/f and see if she could stop, but that probably won't happen. The girl Ilike is older than me and hangs out with people who I don't want her to hang out with and be apart of and stuff so....oh ya I'm 12 and she's 16 and we just have a confusing relationship as well as your g/f and her friend I guess. and I hope you can get through this :]
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2005): I think that she only changes towards you because she wants to make her 'naughty girl' friend be impressed. I suggest that you tell her to grow up and stop being the people her friends want to be, be who she wants to be. Don't go too hard on her though as she might feel hurt and could break up with you, but at the same time don't go too soft, otherwise she wont get the message. Good luck, friend Archangel
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