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writes: My girlfriend complains that sex is painful for her. I have tried several different positions and techniques but I cannot seem to find anything that works. She says that the length of my penis is the problem ( I measure in at 8 inches ). I have not had this problem with other women I have had intercouse with unless that is that they never said anything. I just want her to enjoy our sexual experiences together. I have no problem performing oral sex, I actually become very aroused by doing this. I just want to find a way to pleasure her during intercourse, PLEASE HELP!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2005): hey im only 14 but when me and my bf had sex the other day for the first time but it hurt me really bad but i found that we just had to be more gentle and do it layed down on our sides and e kept on keepin still like every so long and it was ok we really enjoyed it in the end
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reader, DrumMeOver +, writes (15 December 2005):
 In addition to the help found here, I'd also like to add that maybe your girlfriend should go for a checkup at her gynecologist's. A friend of mine, going in for a check up, found that she had a false entry-way to her cervix... when she engaged in intercourse, at times the angle would cause the male's member to go into that false tunnel and push against a wall of tissue that seperated this tunnel from the uterus. It was an apparently extremely painful thing, but it helped her find better comfort in her sex life. Good luck, happy holidays!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2005): You don't have to push it ALL the way in, remember. Keep a couple of inches out even when thrusting - may be that you're banging her cervix.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2005): I suggest going in slow using lots of lub, going in slow and abit at a time can also be fun and a tease for her, instead of just jumping into it str8 away try being romantic and really make her relaxed and in the mood first, also trying new techniques is great and you should keep doing that but why not try a different location this can be very thrilling for both involved. good luck
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (14 December 2005):
 Aren't we a lucky boy? She's not got it bad either!!! I'm sure there's many of us reading this, men and women, sooo jealous of both of you!!
It can be painful for a woman even with a smallish penis, if she's not aroused enough. Try some lubricant and go slow until you're both 'settled'. Also, when you start off having intercourse each time, start with you on top; taking her from behind or some other position often makes it sore. Hope you get past this, I'm sure you'll have some real fun if you!!!
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