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writes:Hey.. So I recently reconnected with an ex boyfriend of mine who I let go two years under stupid circumstances. Well in my heart I feet he is the one. So I contacted him through face book recently and we have been having great conversations, we actually even hung out. So here’s where I am he told that I should decided the next time and place where we hang out. So I did I told him this Saturday at 7. Well this was since yesterday and he hasn’t respond. I guess Im worried cause he’s usually very consistent with his replies. I guess I feel like he might stand me up cause I ended it two years ago when he wanted to keep it going. What do I do if he doesn’t respond? my friends say leave it alone but I wouldn't want to give him up just like that. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2009): First, how do you know he even swa the request? Maybe he's busy, lost hims phone, hasn't been at his computer... there's all kinds of valid reasons that he's not responded...
Second, maybe you hurt him and he's still tender... maybe he dones't want to get hurt again (i.e. trust you not to hurt him again)...
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2009): He probably doesn't your thoughts in regards to feeling you're 'the one'. He's an ex, he has a right to be guarded with you and keep you at an arms length. He doesn't owe you anything and in fact dwelling on him is not a good idea. You broke up with him for a reason right? Remember that reason, enjoy being single and use everything you've learnt from this relationship to make the next one even better!
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