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My ex boyfriend just used me for sex!

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Question - (27 December 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 December 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

My ex bf just wanted me for sex and used a lame excuse to break up with me, and i've found out that my current bf's friend is best friends with my ex, so when my ex found out that i was going out with my current bf he gave like some weird look or smirk that my bf was talking about. And so they wanted to know wut that look was for and he told them i was his ex gf, and i think he was trying to show that our relationship was so bad that he couldn't talk about it. So my bf is mad becuz he's wondering wut was so bad that he couldn't say anything. But the real truth is that he just wanted me for sex and then left me trying to make people believe i've done something really wrong. I'm upset that my bf is thinking that i've really done something bad, but is it just normal for him to feel that way or should he be trusting me? I think the reason why he doesn't trust me on it is becuz hes basing it on how we fight all the time, he just says he doesnt' know wut to think about that situation. My bf was wondering how come even my ex's best friend didn't know about me dating him, but to me i'm thinking that of course his best friend doesn't know me becuz he didn't mean to have any relationship with me, so he wouldn't want me to meet any of his close people. I mean does any of this make sense? Even my ex's friends were telling me about why he wanted to date me or wutever u call it. They said he wanted to be with me becuz i looked like some porn star in a video they had...i hope that better not be true at all becuz thats so low and disgusting. How is my bf going to ever see this truth? Should i even tell him all the details? I dont' want him to be hurt if i had to tell him the details about me being used for sex and that porn thing. How can i make him understand the real truth?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2006):

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Well I have moved on, i'm just worried about my current boyfriend.

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A male reader, DevonRuble +, writes (27 December 2006):

Well....the best thing you can do is move on. Sure, you have a right to be mad at him and I don't blame you. But as a guy, I can honestly say I don't understand why some men are all about sex. I'm not.

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