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writes:I'm so confused!I broke up with my ex approx 18 months ago altho we have been seeing each other for the past 6 months altho wer not Bf and GF we may as well be and I'm so sure i'm back in love with him however when me and my ex had broke up i started seein a guy for a few months but he lives in Canada as he works there and only comes home a couple of times a year, i really liked this guy and when he went bk home we still talked loads altho eventually lost touch. He came back a few weeks ago and i saw him a few times when i've been clubbing, and we have kissed on 2 occasions, at first i felt really horrible on my ex and worried about it, however when i'm with the boy from Canada i really like him again and hes admitted that he wants sumthin 2 happen between us although i said it couldnt. Last nite when i was with my ex, i saw the lad from Canada and since then he hasnt spoke 2 me. When i was with my ex i had such mixed emotions i felt guilty but couldnt help wanting to be with the canadian boy. its making me Question my love with my Ex and am so upset that the canadian boy wont talk 2 me altho he goes back 2 Canada in 5 weeks time!I dont no what 2 do or who 2 choose!Please help me!I'm soo sorry this is long!But i'm a mess and need my life sortingthank u for reading x
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2007): i would just like to say thank you to karina for her help! My ex does not know of the canadian as i no it will deeply upset him, i know my ex loves me but I'm not 100% sure of what i want right now. Your answer makes sense I should just inform the canadian that there isn't much point of a romantic relationship when he lives so far away. Thank you for taking time out to answer my question x
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reader, Carina  +, writes (8 July 2007):
 This sounds very confusing, not just for you, but for the two guys involved! Does your ex know about the Canadian and is he bothered about you seeing him? If not then he obviously doesn't feel the same about you as you do about him.
My feeling is that it would be best if you were completely honest with both of them. You're still young and there's no reason why you have to commit to any one person. Explain to the Canadian that you would like to stay in touch and be a good friend but at the moment you're not ready for anything more than that, especially with him living so far away.
He may disappear out of your life, but I think that's the chance you have to take. It's not fair to string him along.
It sounds to me as though you love your ex but that you're not sure of his feelings for you. It might be best to tell your ex how you feel and ask him if he's feeling the same. At least then you'll know one way or the other and can move on if necessary. Hope this helps a bit.
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