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writes: I'm fooling around with an ex bf that my brother disapproves of, even though this guy made a huge effort to get my bro to like him when we were going out. i choose not to inform my brother that i had started fooling around with this guy again, but i've heard that someone saw us (i'm not sure how much they saw but it could have been pretty full on) and told him about it. I need advice on how to deal with this. I need for my brother to understand that i can make my own decisions and if guys hurt me then i'll just have to deal with it, it's not his problem. I've told him a billion times but he doesn't seem to get it. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2006): I've not liked a couple of my younger sisters boyfriends in the past but really... what business is it of mine?
You don't need for your brother to understand at all. You said yourself your ex bf made a huge effort to get to know your brother, so what's his problem?
My sister isn't there to go out with boys that I like - she's there to go out with boys she likes. If your brother can't accept that - so what? It's not your problem!
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