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My boyfriend? Why did he let this other guy get to him?

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Question - (18 January 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 January 2012)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Okay so me and my boyfriend were in public and me and him think its funny to say stuff out loud. So i yelled oh babe lets have sex! and he laughed and said lets do it right now! We were both laughing and i said i want millions of kids baby and he said lets get started. We were laughing like crazy. Than i said oh baby i love you and he said me too sexy. When me and him go out its the most funny-est things. And so all of a sudden a guy comes out of no where and looks at me and says 'Damn millions of kids i heard you say? Why don't we get started?' My boyfriend than looked at him and said to back off because hes my boyfriend. Than he picked me up and put me over his shoulder and carried me out. Dont take it the wrong way i dont mind him carrying me out of stores like im a child! lol but i did kind of mind why he let the boy in the store get to him. When girls go up to him i got to admit it makes me upset but i don't just take him out of the store. i just kindly tell the girls that he is taken. And they usually walk away. Why couldn't he of done the same? He didn't even wait for a replay from the boy. Just picked me up over the shoulder and carried me out!

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A female reader, Gabrielle Stoker United States +, writes (19 January 2012):

Gabrielle Stoker agony auntOne of the unintended consequences of behaving less than politely in public, perhaps? Honestly, OP, if you are going to put your sex life out there in way that you think is funny, random strangers WILL occassionally think it is all right to make fun of you. When you don't respect the sensibilities of people who do not wish to listen to your 'banter', do not be surprised if someone say something you did not wish to hear.

Maybe the realization is what had your significant other i a state of embarassment?

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A male reader, Kyle007 United States +, writes (19 January 2012):

He is probably just protecting you. Another man could physically harm you. Another woman isn't really a threat to him physically. Sorry, men are stronger than women, so there is a double standard there.

You know, when creepy people do creepy things and it jars your sensibilities, its not always easy to react in the most perfect way, so give the guy the benefit of the doubt on this one is my advice.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2012):

just sounds like he had a bit of an overreaction, if he's about the same age 16-17, then I think that is pretty typical boy behaviour. I wouldn't worry about it too much, if something simlilar happens like that again, maybe reasure him that you are his girlfriend, and some random guy inturupting the conversation won't change that.

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