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anonymous
writes:hi, I'm not sure what to do. My bf wants to go down on me, but I feel very uncomfortable with it. My ex tried it several times too, but I never really like it. I can't feel very much when being licked. If my bf uses his hands it feels better, but not really great. I've tried to guide him. We've tried to take it really slowly and everything but it doesn't really do the trick for me. I tried the same with my ex, but my ex never became very good at it and neither is my current bf. I'm not sure if it is me or if it's them. Is it possible that I just don't like being licked? As we continue to try I get more and more stressed when we don't succed in getting it right too. And I feel bad when telling my bf to stop. I think he might think it's his fault even if I've told him it didn't work with my ex either. The sex is otherwise great. He makes me come almost everytime we have penetrational sex, but I think he feels sad because he can't make me come with hands or mouth. Have you always liked being licked or did you have to get used to it? Is there any way to make the licking better? What works for you? Had you ever trouble coming when not penetrated? Please help!
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reader, nlieu279  +, writes (26 March 2010):
 I don't like to be licked because first I don't like it that much, second.... his mouth is where I kiss, I don't want to kiss a dirty mouth!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2010): The question asker here:
Thanks for the answers!! will try to stimulate before or even try it after we've had sex.
will it take long to relax enough to enjoy it? we've dated for 2 years and still it feels uncomfy...
and I just want to clearify, I have mastrubated for more than 10 years and I have no trouble coming when doing so. I know what I like, but even if I try advicing my bf to do similar things it's difficult to apply it to when he licks me.
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