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writes:This is kind of a silly circumstance, but I'd really like some help.My boyfriemd and I have been together for about ten months. I love him very much and do see some sort of future together. However, I do 'notice' other people (guys and girls being I am bisexual) but have no intentions of doing anything. I tell him I don't care if he notices other girls too, it's natural to look. He caught me looking at another girl recently though and he seemed very put off. I didn't even know I was doing it! I want to know how to stop noticing, because I don't want to make him uncomfortable. Thanks for reading, and thanks in advance toany replies. Reply to this Question
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reader, Angel S  +, writes (19 July 2012):
 Hi,Maybe you need to reassure your boyfriend a little more. I believe it is more common in relationships for someone to become upset because their partner is looking at other girls or boys, some feel like their partners eyes are wandering consequently making them feel insecure. Your boyfriend may be feeling like this, if you think about it its not exactly a comfortable situation for you to be checking someone out and your boyfriend left wondering whats going on. You say you don't know your doing it, try put a little more effort into making your boyfriend understand that you are 100% not going to stray and he may lay off a little about becoming upset when you say there is nothing to worry about. Think about it from his point of view.Xo xo
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