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My boyfriend says he can't cum

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Question - (13 January 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 January 2011)
A female Ireland age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Ok im like sooo confused, ive been wit my boyfriend a while now and we recently became sexually active.. we do everything together but no matter wat i do he never comes.. ive asked him about it and he says its not me, its that he just cant come, he said no matter wat girl he has ever been wit b4 he has never been able to come... i just dont understand it,,, i dont knw if he can come wen he masterbates himself or not but anytime i bring the subject up he just dismisses it and says he just cant.... ive never had problems like tis with guys b4 and i just really need some answers because i feel like im doing something wrong and not pleasing him the way i should :(

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A female reader, angelalb United States +, writes (13 January 2011):

I would recommend a doctor. Maybe its psychological. Anyway he should get some kind of help. Daniele

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (13 January 2011):

dirtball agony auntIt's pretty rare with guys, but this kind of thing happens sometimes. You should ask him if he can make himself cum or if he could guide you to help you make him cum. Don't expect a miracle though. Some people have difficulty having an orgasm. That's just how they are wired. As long as he's telling you he's satisfied, you should listen and not worry.

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