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writes:Basically I have a really bad problem, i love the guy I’m with more than anything, but, well, in bed he's not exactly great... I’m lucky if he lasts 5 minutes and he’s really selfish in bed. I spoke to a mate of mine, and we were talking about sex and all I could think was she’s so so lucky. ? He has never satisfied me, we’ve tried everything I like, but still I always end up thinking about sex with other guys, I feel sooooo guilty, but I can’t help it. I love him to bits but I don’t know what to do. ? We’ve been together for 11 months. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): hi, this is the original poster.the main problem is... well, the size. :(
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reader, manchesterlad09 +, writes (23 July 2009):
Think you should tell him - sure it will hurt him at 1st to hear but in the long run it will no doubt drive and big wedge between you and be the cause of loads of problems.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): HiYou sound weirdly like my best friend it's not you is it?? ;D;D lol :Dwell i mean one thing you could try is like deprive each other of sex for a bit, that way maybe you'll both want it more be more up for it and your bf will physically be more urgent and you should really tell him he's not satisfying your needs i swear that motivates any man haha, other than that maybe you should consider whether you're compatible as lovers because all i know is that if i wasn't excited by my bf i wopuld probably end it, some people might suggest sex toys but i think if it's not there in the first place...well idk i'm not an expert on this subject but i thought i's suggest it anyway as my friend has this problem take care :D x
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