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writes:Hi people! Recently i've moved Out of theTown (5 miles difference) from my boyfriend and I told him I want to stay close with him and he agreed with it. But..... Every time I ask him if we should hang out, he's always busy and something is wrong but he won't tell me.He sometimes tell me he don't want to talk with anyone and I get worried and drive home to him but then his friends are there.I asked if he needed space but said it wasn't like that. I once heard his friends talking about he changed and when they saw me they just started talking about something else.I'm really worried and I don't wanna feel like a fool. (sorry if there is any spelling mistakes. I'm on my phone)
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (29 April 2011):
 I have been in that very same situation, except my bf is where you are and I'm where your bf is.
I'm not a good communicator and I don't like to "unload" my problems on my bf even though he insists that he can handle it and he loves me and he wants to know what is wrong.
Whenever I'm withholding information from him and he absolutely wants to know what is going on, he sits me down in front of him, face to face and asks me, point blank what's wrong.
If I say I don't know, he says bullsh*t and continues to push the issue until I share. He tells me that he loves me and that I can tell him anything. That this is a safe space and I love it when he does this, it's very reassurring to me that I won't be rejected because of how I feel. Sit your bf down and tell him you love and care about him, you're both adults and you need to know what is going on with him for the sake of your relationship.
Does he still want to be with you? Is he having second thoughts? It's only five miles difference. Just be honest, but with honesty comes truth and sometimes we really don't like the truth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI asked him and it usually ends in argumnts.. All he says is just 'I don't know'
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