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writes: I'm 28 and am having real problems orgasming with my fiance. He is my first and is a sensitive and kind lover, if not the most experimental. I have a weak lower back and I don't think this helps. But even before this, orgasms were about 1 in every 3 times we had sex. Lately, I can't remember when the last time was.My fiance always enjoys himself but thinks he's failing me. I'm starting to feel there's something really wrong with me. Please help!
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reader, lillaum  +, writes (23 October 2005):
 Hi there
Relax! You are not on your own. You need to tell your partner that he has not failed you and that nobody is to blame. You may find that all you need to do is spice up your sex life a little. There are pleanty of positions that you and your partner can enjoy that you dont need a strong back for. SexualPosistionsFree.com Is a tasteful and occasionally funny site that you will find helpful.
You may find that because you are not relaxing and you are putting to much pressure on yourself that, that will be why you are not climaxing.
Tell your partner what you find a turn on. Remeber that sex just gets better and better the more communication that goes on.
Good Luck
Lillaum
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