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*owgirl23
writes:Last night my boyfriend and I hung out and everything was fine. Since we didn't have a lot of time to hang out, he made plans to hang out with me today for the day. He left my house and went out with his friends and came home. He messaged me that he was home but I was sleeping and didn't get the message until this morning. When I woke up and received this message, I replied back. Its now the evening and I haven't heard from him at all today. He has ignored me all day, ditched me when we made plans, and now I have NO idea where he is. What am I supposed to do? He does this once in a while and I don't understand what I keep doing wrong. Why do I deserve this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2011): You don't deserve it. Tell him you have a life too and make plans with your friends. Don't sit around waiting for him to change. Go have fun and live your life. Next time you make plans for a date have a back up plan so if he ditches you, you'll have something to do instead of sulking. Don't act clingy it's a turn off. Act independent, show him you can have a good time on your own. Set a limit. If he misses a certain amount of dates then end it. Don't stay around someone who hurts you. Just remember when one door closes another door opens... good luck sweetie hope you work it out.
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