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My boyfriend wants to come, but then he just goes "numb"...

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Question - (13 April 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 May 2005)
A , *exyGoth05 writes:

I can't seem to get my b/f off. I have tried everything from having him show me what he likes to having him do it himself for me to watch and learn.

I don't know how to work it. He has told me that he is ready for it but then he has to do it himself. He says that he enjoys what we do but when he is about to cum he just goes numb and he can't.

Is there any help/advice out there for me?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2005):

Hi hunny.Some men do tend to suffer from this problem.Sometimes my partner can go for ages and feel like he is just about to cum but then nothing.If it is causing problems for you both perhaps he could try seeing a doctor to see if there may be a physical reason for it.Otherwise you both need to sit down and try to figure out what it is that he gets to that point and then he can`t climax.It could be a stress related problem or something he thinks of just at that moment which is taking his attention off the job in hand and causing this to happen.As i said though talk and if that doesn`t throw any light onto the situation then perhaps consult a doctor about the problem.I hope this helps a bit.Thankyou.Good lucl and take care.

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