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writes: My boyfriend was in a car accident about 2 months ago-his car is a total wreck but through a contact of his he decided to fix it for about R10000. To do this he had to take a loan etc. He's OK but so frustrated and irritable. I feel like he takes all his frustration out on me. When I told him that, he says I'm talking rubbish and I'm selfish and inconsiderate. I know he's going through a hard time. He says once everything is sorted out which will be Friday 11 Nov (when he gets his car back) he will be ok- I must just bear with him. I don't ask him to buy me anything or take me anywhere - just to come visit me on weekends- he says I'm asking too much. Am I? I'm so tired of all the fighting, screaming and yelling-the tears shed too. What must I do? I love him dearly-the pain is just becoming unbearable and I feel like I'm talking to a brick wall when speaking to him. I want to make us work. Help please! Reply to this Question
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reader, cortneysg +, writes (3 November 2005):
Maybe you should suggest some time apart for him to realize how much he loves and needs you. it will be hard for you to stay away and/or not answer the phone when he calls...but trust me he will realize what he has once its gone.
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