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writes: hey hey Do i need to get a different boyfriend as the 1 i've got as he dont spend much tme with me! I love him loads but he just doesnt get alot of time 2 c me!
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reader, Irish49  + ♥, writes (3 November 2006):
 I have a feeling you may have already discussed this issue with your bf? Hun, when a guy really, really likes or loves his gf, he will do anything to spend time with her. Simple as that. Wild horses couldn't drag him away...family, work, school...absolutely nothing could keep him from seeing you. So if you are feeling sad that he doesn't want to see you...yes, by all means..cut him loose. Don't waste your time...and when you recover from all this..find a guy that will honor and respect you enough as his gf-to make time (a lot of time) for just you!
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (3 November 2006):
 well why is he not spending so much time with you?! is he always working?, studyin gfor school? or just simply cant be botherd?! well if he cant be botherd sure move on, if its any of the other 2 reasons or anything simaler to them then maybe just explaining ti him that you miss and would like to spend every minute the 2 of you can with each other also it may help by discussing days to see each other!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2006): I'll give him the benefit of the doubt.
My bf spends too much time with me and never gets anything done that he should, other times he doesn't spend enough time with me, but he accomplishing something usually.
So is it his choice to not see you or is he simply busy working are getting things done?
If he's doing something with his time that's helpful to him or his family such as work, don't get upset, he probly really wants to see you but knows he can't all the time or he'll never get anywhere.
However if he's choosing friends over you all the time something silly like games, there comes a point in a relationship where he needs to set some priorities straight. Good Friends might come first , but only for a little while, then you, who could be his future, need to have the most time invested into.
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