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writes:I Have Been With My Boyfriend For Almost 11 Months And He Just Recently Told Me He Made Out With Someone When We Were About 3 Or 4 Months Into Our Relationship I Really Love Him And I Feel Really Betrayed Should I Just Move On Or Break Up With Him? Im Really Hurt Id Never Thought He Would Do That To Me Thats All I Think About
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): Sweetie~The only being perfect is God. If you truly love him, you love him unconditionally..If he truly loves you, he will prove "trust" to you without you even having to ask him to nor will you have to press the issue. It's not even your responsibility to even ask yourself or even ask us if you should give him another chance. If he truly loves you, he will show you the truth by any and all means humanly possible...Word are just that.
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reader, legemini  +, writes (25 October 2010):
I think that since he was honest and told you that he did this he deserves another chance.
Does he love you too? Does he show it in his actions and words?
A lot of people are not ready for commitment in the first year of a relationship. I would stay with him based on the way he treats you. Obviously if another similar event happens then I would leave him.
My last bf cheated on me and tried everything to hide it. Even where there was plenty of evidence he still wouldn't admit it. Crazy thing is he wanted to stay together. I truly believed that had he been honest maybe I could've forgiven him. I walked away from the relationship the next day and never looked back. The next guy I met was even better.
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reader, bella.. +, writes (25 October 2010):
 Well i think you should not stay with a person who cheats on you if he did it once he will do it twice. Yet, in the other hand you can take a risk and give him another chance only if you feel like doing it. If you are not going to feel good after him telling you he cheated on you, i would recomend just letting in go. Remember also that everybody deserves a sencond chance, you only know who deserves it.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (25 October 2010):
 At least he told you, but was it to clear his conscience or because it's the right thing to do? If you can't get over it, and let him regain that trust, then the relationship is over. A relationship has to have trust in order to survive. Didn't know him as well as you thought.
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