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writes: Hello again, for the last few months my b/f keeps trying to get me to have anal intercourse. The thought of it really turns me on but every time I say OK I chicken out because I can't handle even a finger. I was told in the past that spit is the best thing to use, but I can't seem to loosen up. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2005): if he want to take you up the tradesman I have a great suggestion! Go and buy a huge dildo...produce it from under your bed and say''i will if you will'Personally I hate the craze for anal sex at the moment..i mean...there is nothing there for girls in terms of g spot so basically you may as well stick your willy in my ear!Also think of this! If you let him do you up there BEFORE you have a baby...what is there to look forward to? What happens if you aint so tight in years to come?Also I think its important to have things to look forward to..you know hooray its my 70th and today I want it up the butt!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2005): You won't "loosen up" until after his dick is inside your ass. It has to just adjust to the size. The only way to do it is to just do it. Get plenty of lubrication, ky, vaseline, whatever. Be on top, and control the action. I laid on my side in the spoon position. I totally relaxed ( a drink won't hurt ya) I was plenty lubricated. Then just slide him in nice and slow. You will experience discomfort until he has stroked about 4 times. Then it's a whole 'nother story.
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A reader, Michael, writes (22 March 2005): Lubraction from the store would be the best choice. And make sure you clean very well. And just RELAX.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2005): You need a proper lube not just spit (don't take any notice of what you see in porn films... please!).Try KY liquid jelly and make sure he uses protection even if he's you're long-term partner. Remember he's going where humans weren't really designed to go.Relax, deep-breaths.
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