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writes: Me and my boyfriend broke up for a week so i could think about everything. I have been having mixed feelings for him for about 2 months. I did cry when we broke up but i'm not crying now but i still do think about him. Does this mean i do care and should take him back even though i'm not crying? I mean if i think about him and miss him maybe we should be together. It was little things that bugged me about him but everyone has flaws and they were stupid things so i would love to deal with it. Thanks please reply
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2006): I was browing through the "self-help" area in a bookshop yesterday, most of it was full of annoying feminist propaganda, and one such book read "It's called a breakup because it was broken"; made me laugh - but it's true, isn't it?
Think about that title: a good, healthy relationship will never get to the point where you break up - no matter how much you want to believe that you are meant to be together.
When you find yourself broken up with someone, best thing to do is move on with your life - cut contact from them if necessary - and - get on with it.
Easier said than done, I know, but falling in love with someone else is NOT difficult. Before you know it, the bad feelings will be over and you'll be ready to meet someone new. You get rid of loneyness by concentrating on YOUR life - not pursuing your ex - that just makes things worse.
Good luck - and just think - when your middle-aged I doubt you'll even remember how unhappy you were feeling right now.
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reader, lizziebob +, writes (13 August 2006):
 I agree... I recently broke up with my boyfriend who i want to get back with because i miss him. what you described is exactly how i feel. maybe you should talk to him and try and find out how he feels... if he doesn't feel the same then at least you know you have tried and know where you stand in his mind. good luck xxxx
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reader, DEPRESSED +, writes (13 August 2006):
I know what you're going through. my advise is if he's the first person you think of in the morning and the last at night yhen you really love him.Sometimes love don't concur all but if you're sad without him then give it a try . it's better to try and fail than to wander what if.
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reader, Melly06 +, writes (13 August 2006):
I'm going through the same apart from its my man who ended it but he keeps telling everyone things like if anyone hurts her ill kill them and saying he doesnt deserve me i think your still confused but i think you love him but you need to talk things through with him get everythink out before you start again and take it slowly goodluckx
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