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anonymous
writes:Hi, I need some sex advice. My boyfriend is really tall and skinny, and I'm a bit chubby, and he has really pointy hips. This becomes a problem in the missionary position, beacuse his hips hurt my inner thighs, sometimes I even get small bruises. I know the solution is to not have sex in that position, but I like that position. I'm quite happy to talk to him about it, but I would rather approach it with possible solutions instead of simply saying 'that hurts'. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2010): Raise your legs while in the missionary position so he doesn't poke your thighs.
Try wrapping your legs around him or putting them over his shoulders.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (30 December 2010):
 Ok, what this means is he's putting too much pressure on you with his hips. He can adjust the position so that he releaves that pressure. How do I describe it? Kind of like if you guys were doing doggy style, but with you on your back. More of the downward pressure will be on his legs instead of using his hips as the pivot point if that makes sense.
Another possibility is he's just jackhammering too hard. Then just suggest he change his thrusting technique.
Sometimes a simple "that hurts" is called for. He may have an idea of how to change it up to help. Make sure to remind him you love him and that position, you just need that adjustment to enjoy it more.
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