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Mental telepathy or craziness?

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Question - (12 March 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 March 2011)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Do you think mental telepathy is possible with someone you have loved, or are in love with? I'm not crazy--it's not like I have a myriad of voices telling me to do bad things! I only hear *his* name. I hear it all day, every day, and at night I dream about him. This has been going on for almost a year. I haven't gotten in touch with him because I've been in another relationship, and that wouldn't have been fair. But now I am free. But, the problem is, I don't know how to find him. He hasn't signed in to his Myspace account in a year. I can't even find him on Google. So why do I keep hearing his name? Wouldn't he contact me if he was really thinking about me so much?

What do you think?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2011):

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I loved him from a distance. I'm pretty sure he knew about it, as he was my neighbor and part of our circle of friends. We were pretty good friends at the time and I always felt a very intense attraction to him, both physical and mental. I think he felt it too, we definitely hung out together more than was healthy for either of our relationships. Then he met someone and moved out of his place to go live with her elsewhere...

I am currently enjoying my life and doing my own thing. I have a lot of free time on my hands though, it's true. I don't know where he works. I heard he has a girlfriend and never goes out anymore but I don't know if this is true or not or if it's just hearsay. I know a lot of his friends but am wary of approaching them because they sided with my ex after the breakup. I've tried his favorite place but I never seem to catch him there. I'll try the bars, I guess, but I'm not a big fan of hanging out in bars and I no longer have any single girlfriends, everyone is married now and these aren't bars where you go dancing, they're just bars where you go to drink.

So...maybe I'll see him, maybe I won't. Maybe I'll meet someone new. Somehow he'll have to get out of my head, right? Thanks for replying, everyone.

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A female reader, Dorothy Dix Australia +, writes (13 March 2011):

Hi there. You said you loved or were in love with him, but were you ever going out? Or, did you love him from a distance, but he didn't know it?

Did you have a relationship with him or was it only via Myspace?

Perhaps it's just because you are thinking about him still.

I do believe in mental telepathy.

How it usually works though, is a kind of sending thoughts to that person you are thinking about. It's like you are speaking to them in your mind.

I believe the messages get through, and that it comes to them as an intuitive thought. It is quite powerful.

It sounds like you haven't moved on from him as yet.

Unless you really want to actually get back with him again, it's probably best if you try to fill your own life with fun and excitement by making your life as interesting as it can be.

By making your life interesting, you will at least be distracting yourself from thoughts of hearing his name in your mind all day every day.

Surely with that happening, it must be getting in the way for you when you are at work. It would be pretty distracting.

I guess you really have to decide what it is that you want from him now. Once you know, then go from there.

You are having difficulties in being able to contact him as his Myspace account hasn't been used by him for a year. That's a long time.

Do you even know where he works now?

Do you know where he used to go out to, to socialize?

If you do, you could go there with your friends and see if he is there.

It really all depends on what kind of relationship you previously had with him.

I don't think you stated this, but only said that you loved or were in love with him.

Do you know any of his friends or family? This could help.

Take care and best wishes.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2011):

You're not crazy. It's happening to me and it's overwhelming.

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