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anonymous
writes:my boyfriend says he loves me, does things to show his love but doesn't enjoy kissing..this bothers me. whats the problem
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2008): My fiance is the most sexy loving affectionate man I ever met in my life, we are totally devoted to each other and happy, but I know for a fact that he doesnt really enjoy kissing. I realised it on the first date. I love kissing, but am willing to accept that a good snog is something he's not bothered about. I have had boyfriends who have been great kissers, but useless in bed. I know which I prefer. p.s. I think its because his teeth are not the best in the world, and he's conscious of them. It doesnt bother me, I love him whatever.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (30 January 2008):
 You could ask him the reasons why he does not like kissing or is it just your perceptions?
We can only speculate the reasons
1) Bad breath
2) Not openly emotional type
3)Fear of germs
4)kissing phobia
5)culture and background
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2008): Kissing is seen as a necessary and normal part of a relationship, and although it pretty much is, it doesn't have to be this way. I can understand why you would like to be able to kiss him, any woman wants to kiss their partner, but maybe he just doesn't find it particularly interesting.
It's not really a problem or anything, but it does begin to get a bit tiring when you notice this and it bothers you. Why don't you talk to him about it? Search on google for different ways to kiss - it doesn't just have to be a standard peck. Or snog for that matter. Keep variety to your kiss, and don't make it just one of those things. Pay attention to him when you kiss, feel his body, hold him close. Make it nicer and different for him, and this, in time, could encourage him more to enjoy kissing with you.
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