Married last august and think my husband is cheating already!

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I just got married last aug and think my husband is cheating on me already. I was doing laundry and found a condom in his clothes, he said it was from last summer from when i was on medication because some mess with you birth conrtole. A week after i found the condom i checked the box of condoms that we had from when i was on medication the last time i checked them before this i remember counting 6 because i didnt feel like things were right then eather so this time when i checked there was only two left in the box. My husband told me that thats the only way he can jerk off and he said he used them when i went away to my parents for the weekend. I dont get it because before he used to say that he could never get off by jerking off and now hes telling me that he is doing it. Its just so scetchy and I think deep down inside i know hes cheating on me but because hes such a good lier and doesnt show any emotion that a lier normaly shows its hard for me to know for sure. I have two very young children and dont want to put them threw this and nore do i want to stay with someone that doesnt love me, any suggestions anyone?

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