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writes:Is it the bigger the ego the bigger prick he is? Why do you men act so macho I'd love to know! Why are so many guys so up themselves they think they can have any girl they want and get away hurting a girl's feeling and be rewarded for it and they don't deserve it? What do they get, did they make deal the devil. Are they evil to begin with.Why should the bad boys be rewarded for being so and good girls have to suffer at the hands of them? I don't understand this.Please lads help me understand male behaviour why do you what you do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2008): There are many good guys out there.For a start instead of blaming the bad boys or getting angry at them,how about if we select the good ones out there.
The good guy may be the nerd in the class who is so shy that he doesn't talk to any one.
The good guy may be the one who sits in a cafe all by himself all because he is too shy to talk to any one.
This Christmas,let go of all your anger at being treated badly.Forget that ex.Go and talk to that sweet guy.He may not look so good.He may not be as interesting a challenge as the bad guy.But he sure is a keeper!
I wish you all the best
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2008): See my girlfriend, what it is as the one reader said, it's take's two.Had you been honest with him from the get go it would not have escalated as far as it did. Deseption is the worst for both of you, not being honest and telling him how you would like to be stimulated. also what are your Fantesies?? and are you visulizing him when your with him, or somone else?? Meny factors her, e both are treatend by failor, no one wants to fail, and when you fake it instead of being honest in the bedroom, then set's both of you up to fail, the be as you said Asshole & bitch's, Intamecy is the key that starts with Truthfullness!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2008): See my girlfriend, what it is as the one reader said, it's takes two. Had you been honest with him from the get go it would not have escalated as far as it did. Deception is the worst for both of you, not being honest and telling him how you would like to be stimulated. also what are your Fantasies?? and are you visulizing him when your with him, or someone else?? Many factors her, e both are treatend by failure, no one wants to fail, and when you fake it instead of being honest in the bedroom, then set's both of you up to fail, the be as you said Asshole amnd bitch's, Intimacy is the key that starts with Truthfulness!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2008): orginal post:
but why do girls find thses assholes attarctive.this guy i thought was nice guy till i found what he really like nice is not word i describle him he drunk as skunk of course .he was rotten to me and i was nice to him.while he was drunk he spend time booasting about tons of girlfreinds to me and then went off kissing another girl in front of me.then he said nothing is going between us i don,r knw what he meant by that.i asked him to dance he said no.then he left in the nighclub all on my own.
he totally traeted me like dirt,now don,t start defening him that he was drunk was excuse becasue it isn,t
now i found out he got him self new girlfriend far better then me and she goes out with him.but he was ashamed to be seen with me becasue i am short and overweight ,plain looking is excuase to be bastard,and be rewared for it its insane and i get nothing be rejection and broken heart,
you going say he fancy you ,will i didn,t fancy him either but i didn,t insult him either.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2008): Exactly you've answered your own question.
Who has your attention the guy thats going to treat you good? No
Your attention is centred around the bad boy, how to understand him, how to please him.
He has you around his finger. Wise up!
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