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writes:Well i have a boyfriend that i really like and he really likes me butt lately i have been starting to like this other boy but he is taken and if i dump my boyfriend for him and he says no then im screwed becuz i dont want to hurt my boyfriend becuz i really like him just this other boy and i really dont know what to so please help me :) x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2009): I would agree with her if you had not said boyfriend. By calling it bf/gf, you're signifying committment. And if you aren't ready for that, then dating is most certainly what you need to be doing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2009): So you don't want to hurt him if this other guys says "no" and you're screwed but it's okay to hurt him if you can be with this other guy because hey.. at least you're happy?
I'm sorry to be harsh, but currently you are hurting your boyfriend, the poor boy just doens't know it yet.
If you can't be emotionally faithful to him than i think you should let him go. Or at least be honest with him and give him the chance to have some dignity and leave himself.
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