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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008): My wife masturbates alone, mutually (with me) and whilst I watch. It all depends what mood we are in (Though I'm almost ALWYS in the right mood).
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2006): "He has never complained but it is something I have always done and he's never seemed to have asked about. I wish he would though."
I like it when a woman plays with herself, it is not possible to *do everything* with just 2 arms, all the time, let alone as well as she can add to it herself, so I would like it, but if it was just because I hadnt given her enough stimulation before sex . . .that is bad, a communication error. You have to ask for what you want in life
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reader, Ne'cee +, writes (19 October 2006):
 it turns me on when he watches. I dont mind doing it online though.
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reader, treetop +, writes (19 October 2006):
alone definately. I find there is too much pressure when a partner is there. When you are on your own you can relax.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2006): My bf doesn't give me enough stimulation before sex. So to help me get to orgasm I masturbate while we are making love. He has never complained but it is something I have always done and he's never seemed to have asked about. I wish he would though.
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reader, !x!T!x!  +, writes (18 October 2006):
 either way is good for me but its better doing it alone.... i prefer gettin down to the real thing with a male partner
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