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writes: Hi,I've come to you with what I find a very big problem.I have fancied this girl for 7 years, which you may feel is a long time. For the first four years we worked together very closely the following three we worked at different companies. Up until january, I had been told that she had moved to italy (where her family is from) which was why I hadn't heard from her. That is until I saw her getting off a train near where I work. It turned out I had been working two blocks over from her for almost a year and just didn't bump into each other.She has been occupied my mind ever since I bumped into her.My friends have tried to give me advice but it's things like just tell her. I think this must be like coming out of the closet to a close friend. She is aware that I find her attractive as I did originally ask her out within a month of getting to know her which she said it would be weird as we worked together.please help me,David Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2005): try again via the sending flowers route....but be careful my friend, as the wait has been a long time! if she says no, then you gotta move on, but if she says yes, then the chase is over & make sure its not going to be an anticlimax!good luck.
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reader, Devil's Advocate +, writes (24 February 2005):
 If she said that it would be "weird" as you worked together, this does not look promising.It is unlikely that working together would be good enough reason not to get it on with someone. Maybe she just doesn't fancy you.Just ask her again, if she puts you off this time, then you have your answer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2005): well dave you dont work together anymore. If you know where she works maybe send some flowers or give her a call. you have hidden your feelings for seven years why make it any longer.the past seven years you might have wasted being happy with her please just give it a shot.
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