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30-35,
*ohn douglas
writes:Dear cupid readers.Recently i connected with a girl i met a couple of years ago. we actually had been in same class for a year. Through out the year we didnt reall got well. We were always competing for every thing. And we didnt really like each other. In the next year i moved to new town. And she called me one day and talked. And from that day on we became friends. We even agreed to go out on a date but didnt work out. But recently she calls me and told me she is in town(where i live). So we decided to meet. We meet we had dinner and we went to her room and things got intersting. I was kissing her neck but she didnt respond. I started undressing her. And she told me she was a virgin. And want to have sex when she is in nice relation ship. So i stopped. I didnt want to have sex with some one who wont feel the same way. So we talked about a lot of thing and we talked about begining relation ship. And when she went back to her town. We decided to talk on the phone about everything. Now thats where am lost i never had a serious girlfriend there was just some girls i had sex, nothing more. Now i really want to be with her despite the distance barrier. So can any one help me what to say to her, about what should i talk and do to begin a serious relation ship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2013): There is no set textbook way on how you should act or behave. Are you really into this girl? Or do you just wanna get in her pants through what she said was the only way to? Because how people act in relationships depends on them and howmuch they love their partner. You are skipping straight to a serious LDR when you haven't even had just a serious relationship. Things will be tough for you, really tough, especially since its your first serious relationship. It definately won't be what you're used to. A serious relationship will require alot of your time and effort, I can tell you that much . . . But as far as how to act? That will come naturally to you.
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