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writes: HiIve been with my boyfreind for 8 yerasnow and we have a 6yr old little boy, a month ago i found he had sent a picture of his penis to someone with a caption saying u will find out later i found this after he never came home until 5am one morning saying he fell aslepp on a friends sofa,so being me i started checking his phone occasionalylast week what with the hot weather he took his top of and went on with what he was doing i saw scratch marks on his back and a small hicky on his neck he says he did it under the van wherre the floor was rough, no way did i believe himi carried on checking his phone and found a message saying do you want to stop then i went madnext morning i checked when he wwas on th loo and it said sorry i didnt mean to mark you that much, i took the number and threw the phone at him and stormed outi rang the number and a women answered name of annwell he confesed said hed taken her out and done things ie snoged etc but never slept with her the marks on his back say differenti also found out and he knows im 9 weeks pregnant any advise would be helpfull im going out of my mindive changed locks but its hurting my boy not seeing his dad HELP Reply to this Question
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (2 August 2006):
 I think you need to keep this man in your life for your son only! Don't take him back because he has already betrayed you in the worst way possible and lied about it too. He will only continue to hurt you this way. This wasn't only was it a drunken one night stand, this was a calculated affair!
There is obviously no trust left in you for him so you must let him go. I advise you to get rid of the baby or bring it up on your own, if aborting it is not an issue for you. Let him see your son but don't let him worm his way back into your heart, he's not good for you and this pain will continue.
I hope you find the strength to move on from this and find someone who loves and respects you enough not to hurt you and disrespect you so badly. Good luck and keep in touch if you want.
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