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I've been trying to win his heart through food

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Question - (11 May 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 May 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have this one guy friend that has noticed me since the begining of the school year. I have seen him in one class but i noticed that i have him for two classes. At the begining of the school year, i didn't really know anyone. So one day there was a group project and i was alone but i hear someone call my name. It was him and he asked me to work with him. Since then i have been trying to make him talk and hang out with me more. For example we he asked me to see a movie with him and i was so excited so i said sure. Later that day he told me that he didn't have plans with anyone of his other friends so that made me think "he wanted to go out but not care who it was with". Also that day i told him i was different then normal and her took it pretty well. He even said he has a lot of friends like me. After that day i have tried everything for him to notice me like having some food because he gets hungry and doesn't eat breakfest. So i buy him food sometimes and i would give it to him whole, not even opening the rapper. So he can notice that i buy him things too. So i've been giving him his favortie food a lot so he can notice that i do so much and lately hes just expecting it, even without a thank you. He acts like one of those people you think is a homosexual but isnt, hes more like what people call metrosexual but i didnt care as i still tried to win his heart. Since hes been acting different i've stop bringing him food and he is still asking it for me. I plan on talking to him about me liking him because i dont care anymore if hes my friend or not. I just want ot tell him and get it over with regardless of whats the out come. Should i do this or is there another way to tell him i like him?

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A female reader, Lilly Rose United Kingdom +, writes (13 May 2009):

Lilly Rose agony auntYou should never have to win a heart....if he likes you then you should just have to be you for him to notice you and want to be with him. STOP buying him food and letting him eat yours....no gentleman would take food off a lady all the time its just rude!!! Tell him you like him and see what happens what have you got to lose?

Then if he does like you then great...but if not don't ever try and buy someones love or likeness! People should want to with you for you and not becoz you buy them things!

Good luck!

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