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writes:i need help i'm in love with my sister shes 17 and really beautiful and i'm 15 and i cant stop thinking about her every time i see her i want to grab her and kiss her and never stop this has bin going on for about 3 years now and i dont know if i sould tell her or what so plz help Reply to this Question |
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reader, arielbriane +, writes (18 November 2009):
 I dont want this to sound rude, or mean... But im an older sister too, around the same age and if my younger brother told me he was in love with me, i'd freak out, and probably stay away from him.
Im sorry, I know you cant help it hun, but I can tell you now it's NOT worth telling your sister. Your feelings should go away as you get older and experience with other girls.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2009): Hi..In this world every thing is mixed by thinking in this way about your sister it means that we reached the animal world..so please remember that you are just a teen and these emothions will go away when you grow up that is why try your best to find love that make God's bless upon you instead of regreat.
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reader, TalkingHelps  +, writes (16 November 2009):
 Don't tell her, get out more and forget about her, it's wrong. And i bet she doesn't think of you at all in that way
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reader, strontiumdog  + ♥, writes (16 November 2009):
 Well fire and brimstone spewing clap-trap (rolls eyes) aside... I wouldn't tell her. What good could come from it? Kapiti brought up a good point, with all those hormones raging away it's easy to get confused. There's this attractive woman around you day and night, and you may not have any sexual outlets at the moment, so I think it's understandable. But it's definitely not good.
You've gotta stop whatever illusions you have about her feeling the same way or anything happening with her. I also don't suggest telling your parents either, at least not at this stage. Definitely talk to someone about it though. There's bound to be some kind of free youth counselling available in your area, or your doctor even. I'm not suggesting this because I think you're sick or there's something wrong with you, but if these are very strong feelings you're having then you really need some professional perspective and guidance.
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reader, Anonymous_NF  +, writes (16 November 2009):
 You really need to forget about her, maybe if you meet an other girl you'll forget about her. It will never work out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2009): Im guessing your shy. Its time for you to meet girls your own age and start dating them.I know its hard and a bit scary at first but in time you'll be more comfortable with them. Make friends with a couple of them first and get to know them.Your feelings for your sis are very unhealthy as you need her to be a sister not a lover, There are many types of relationships in the world and you will need all of them not just sexual.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2009): how old did you say you are? 15? not even yet 18 and you are talking about love and want to have an affair with your own elder sister? that's abomination and a great and unforgiveable sin. Ask God to forgive and renew your heart. Dont be dcieve by the tricks of the devil and don't allowed urself as a tool in the hand of the devil. You are very young and have alot of great opportunity in life. Ask your sister to pray for you, and as you do that God will bless you.
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reader, Ginalolabridga + ♥, writes (16 November 2009):
 You need to speak to your parents about this not your sister, it is wrong to feel as you do and if you confide in your parents they will help you address this.
Gina
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reader, Another_Kapiti +, writes (16 November 2009):
 Is she your real sister? Not half or step? If she's a real sister you realise nothing can happen (at least not legally! Incest = bad) in that arena?
At 15 it's easy to confuse feelings of LOVE with feelings of 'lust', your hormones are on red alert, and I feel that pretty much she is your substitute for a real romance.
What is it about her that you love? Just to get a clearer picture about what's going on in your mind! If you love her for who she is, it's just your hormones transforming that love of her as a person into something sexual.
Is there anyone you can talk to at home or school? Guidance Counsellor or perhaps a Teen Helpline?
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