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writes:Helloo Again im 15 now and am in my last year at school and have been chatting with a 17 year old boy online and by phone who lives about an hour from me and we have got to know eachother really well and we have seen eachothers Pictures and been on webcam so we know its not a fake . we have been speaking for quite some time now and we both like eachother were very close even thought we have not met. Im going to loose some weight before we meet and he knows that i have never wanted to meet somebody soo much in my whole life as much as him he always makes me smile even when im upset or ill he makes me feel Happy and he sees the real side to me which hardly comes out . I think i love him and i just hope eh will love me back when we meet but have you got any advice Thankyou! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2007): Getting in his car until you know him better is probably a really bad idea, I'm sure you know that already. Maybe you could tell your parents about him? Keeping it a secret will only go wrong sooner or later.
You shouldn't stress about going on a crash diet to loose weight. You can't loose weight like that, it will cause you to be depressed and unhappy and you'll end up putting on even more weight. That's a fact! Nobody ever looses weight quickly and keeps it off.
Why don't you arrange to walk around your local town or something? Get something to eat in a cafe, stuff that is in public. I think you know what is sensible and what isn't. Take care and all the best.
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reader, X....Barbie....X +, writes (30 July 2007):
X....Barbie....X is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou for Your Answer but what do i do if i cant take a friend with me and i know i cannot love him as in proper love but i do have feelings for him and he knows hes so nice to me and he wanted to meet ages ago and hed be willing to drive me back home but i said no because im scared he wont like me because of my weight i just hope i can loose it in time without him getting a girlfriend x
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2007): i think that you should get to know him physicaly coz he might be lying to you.why don't you at least say you like him coz love is a big word for sum1 you met over da internet.get to know him first before falling too hard.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2007): If you do meet him, maybe it would be better if you could take a friend too? If you do decide to go alone, make sure you tell a friend what's going on and meet him in a public place. Text your friend when you are with him just to let them know you are OK. Remember also that you just have a lot of feelings for him, you can not love him because you have no idea who "he" really is until you can spend plenty of time around him. How people are online and how they are offline are totally different.
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