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anonymous
writes:Good Evening.My problem is with a work collegue. We've worked together for nearly two years (known each other even longer) and just recently we've become 'closer' I can;t explain how but there's something between us. We get on famously both in and out of work. Collegues have started to make tongue in cheek comments about us which I can deal with as we're both single but Since these comments he has been 'offish' with me. I managed to get him alone and ask what was wrong and whether I'd upset/offended him, which he replied no.To be honest I've never seen him to be anymore than a friend until recently, but after being rude to me the other day which is so out of character for him, it really upset me So I told him and he just shrugged it off.It's now at a point where we are ignore each other and I hate it. What do I do cupids?? Reply to this Question
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reader, The old Man?  +, writes (16 July 2009):
 Fishing in the company pond is never a good idea.
With the tension you're experiencing at a friendship level is uncomfortable, imagine how a relationship issue would be.
Give him some time, keep it as friends only, hopefully it will mend itself.
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