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Is there such a thing as having no heart and being incapable of falling in love?

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Question - (24 June 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 June 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

What's the matter with me? 55 years old and when I date someone, I can enjoy them for about 15 minutes then want them out of my space! I am not attracted and just can't seem to "feel" for anyone. Is there such a thing as having no heart and being incapable of falling in love?

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A female reader, watrbot +, writes (26 June 2006):

Wow I so relate to that. I'm 30 and every guy but one has hurt me. i'm currently trying to let down my barrier to let this one guy in but let me tell you it is very hard. i'm a very independent woman. i can tolerate guys i date for about a date and that's it. however this one guy would be perfect for me if I would just let it happen.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2006):

I don't think so, maybe you have been hurt in the past and are a little wary of wearing your heart on your sleeve.you probably haven't met the right person that's all.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2006):

Hun, you and I are in the same age group. I can only speak for myself, but I dated a few people and I found I had a low threshold for the BS that occurs during the initial stages of dating and getting to know someone. Must be the age and a more realistic, maturer look at life. Who knows. I am wondering if this is what you are going through. If it is, take heart. You just haven't found the right man yet. You will know him when you meet him. I met my fellow and the thing that I found appealing about him? He was honest and there was no bullshit. Good luck.

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