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writes: Ok i have this best friend and we are extremely close. Me and her at mind and just having a cudle on the sofa when my sister came in and one of our other friends and saw us. We are only close friends but feel comfortable enough with each other to do these sorts of thingsand yes if im being honest i do love her. The others won't leave us alone now they have seen us saying its not normal then my sister blirted out that we had slept together before which we have by that i mean just to sleep no sex because as i said we are comfortable enough with each other to do that without anything developing and apart from that its kinda nice to be able to cuddle up in bed especially as its really cold outside now and that night my friend wasn't exactlly very happy and was in no fit state to drive home as at one point she couldn't stop crying. What can we do is there something wrong with two friends just wanting a cuddle every now and then i'm sick of this and now its getting to the point where we daren't do it anymore and its killing us. Why are they doing this? Is it so wrong? What can we do? Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2007): Ok, you see, i do the same thing, people constantly bug if we are together and really it doesnt matter! People are always shocked when they find out who you MIGHT like, and yet theres couple walking around in school, and they KNOW who they like, but it doesnt matter to them. I would just ignore it all, and be happy with what you have
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (18 November 2007):
 Do you really REALLY care that much about what other people think?
They're the ones with the problem. It only becomes a problem if you make it your problem as well.If they say anything, look them in the eyes and say "it's none of your business, if you've got issues with it, go and take them some where else where someone might give a damn." You'e not doing anything wrong.
You don't need to correct yourself or explain yourself. You were born to be different so anything anyone does is not "normal"
carry on the way you were. Let them believe what they want to coz they'll be living a lie and it's THEIR PROBLEM
Don't make it yours too. If you love her, you'll stand up for yourself and her and not let ANYTHING come between you.
I hope this helps xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2007): Nothing wrong with it.
But just realize that if she doesn't want you romantically already, then she never, never, EVER will.
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