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writes:Im 19 and i was just wondering if its common for people of all ages to find the build up to sex 'comfortable' rather than excitting and 'film like'? Reply to this Question |
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reader, maryjane22  +, writes (26 June 2007):
 Do you enjoy sex once you start having it? I hate reading this, I wish everyone was able to have a positive, happy sex life. The build up in my sex life is boring too, the sex is boring too, and now I don't like sex at all. I think it could be the person, when you first hook up with a new person it is exciting and spontaneous, and 'film like'. After a while, with the same person, and the same expectations the build up and the sex itself can get quite boring, or comfortable. I wish I could offer a more hopeful response, but if you're not in a serious relationship fool around with someone new and if you get excited, then you'll know it's not a good match.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2007): Hi I poseted the question, i think i may have confused some people as by confortable i kinda meant boring comfortable rather than relaxed comfortable.
Its just that the build up to sex at the moment is just comfortable and stable (if that makes sense) and im not sure if at our age (19 and my b/f 24)we should be experiencing more excitment and spontinaity? (sorry about the spelling!)
Am i being unrealistic? Any thoughts would greatly help!
Thank you! xoxox
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reader, bubbloo24  + ♥, writes (26 June 2007):
 I'd say.. a bit of both...
It really depends on what makes it happen for you.
It's got to be comfortable in the way that it's not too much to start off with and it's not painful!
And exciting.. well it's a build up, not full throttle to begin with.
Hope I helped a bit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2007): Yah, when your building up to have sex... you should be definanly comfortable!!! and it will probably be exiting for you too... You might get a little nervous, but just remember that the person your having sex with is in the exact same position as you... so there probably feeling the same way as you!!! But just try to make them feel comfortable... and it should go find... just go with the flow!!! and start it out slow!!!! =)
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