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writes: I have known a man for about 9 months and we have been getting on really well for the last 4 months. I only see him term time once a week and once over the summer.I saw him go out for dinner with as he said "a friend" who is a girl. I didn't see too much body language. I sent him a e-mail asking if it was his girlfriend and he did not answer. He does answer other quiestions. I have since indirectly asked again and he also ignored the question.When we are together he over laughs at my jokes, chats directly with me, jokes and messes about with me. He has also made sugestive remarks and remembers what I say to him!Is this girl his girlfriend? Does he really fancy me? What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, missdee +, writes (20 September 2005):
If he won't answer that question while he does answer other questions he is hiding something from you. Could he be married? That would explain why you didn't see body language. If you seen him go out to dinner with someone why didn't you go up and say hi? That way he would be put in a spot to introduce you to the person he is having dinner with. If he didn't you could have introduced yourself and ask who she was.
It sounds more like he is using you as a part time girlfriend, while having someone else full time. You need to find out. Ask him directly not indirectly. If this relationship is going anywhere you need to know.
Yes, I think he likes you, but if he is already taken you need to look for someone that is not. Who knows how many other girls he likes too. Hope this helps.
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