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writes:I am going out with this girl for the second time. The first time we dated for a Month and things did not go to well but we kept in touch. Now we are seeing each other again, but she is telling me that we need to take it slow and that that was why things did not work out the first time. My question is, she keeps playing head sexual games with me and when I think i am getting a hint she pulls away and tells me that i need to calm down. So is she for real or is she just playing games? How should I treat her I am the type that would do anything for a woman and she sees that. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2008): Well to respect her, even though she is toying with you, you definitely need to take it slow. It is hard enough not to think sexually about girls, and when they toy with you in such a way, it is harder. You need to stay tough. Showing her such a respect will most likely impress her. If she keeps it up you should confront her on it. She may get upset, but she will know that what she is doing is wrong. She may make you look like a jerk for telling her such a thing, but after it is said and she thinks about it, she will most likely see. Just be strong through the process because after you say it, the initial reaction will be an attack back at you, which proves you right, but do not tell her that. Just tell her, that you trust her. If she still overreacts, there are more fish in the sea, and you can continue your respect for women. If you continue this, you will find a true catch. I am not saying she is not, she may be the one, but I am just showing the options are many.
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