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Is Penis size that much of a big deal now?

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Question - (25 November 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 November 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I am sure this question must have been asked hundred time but all the girls i have dated think that i have big size penis, because i am originally from africa, and some of them get kind offended when they discover i have an avarage one. So is Penis size that much of a big deal now...?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2009):

For most girls I have talked to including myself, it's mostly about width... Yes it needs to not be tiny, but "pencil" penis' are not what most girls look for. Also it truly doesn't matter if you have the right tool, if you don't know how to use it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2009):

First, you need to look at why they are sleeping with you in the first place. I'm assuming you are dating women of a different ethnicity. In that case, they see you as the stereotypical "mandigo" male. The average male phallus is 5-7" (erect) and depending on thickness (which often really counts), that will usually do it for many women. Along with foreplay and positions, a woman should be satisfied unless the man is just horrible in bed.

If they have overly high expectations in the beginning you have to decide if you should sleep with them or not. I would wonder why the assumption and ask. Let them know, your like every other man, no different. They come in all sizes and lengths. If they are looking for Mandingo, they should go to the sex toy shop.

That's my 2cents on that...

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