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writes:is it possible to like two people at the same time, and if so then how do u chose which one you love more?? cause i still have super strong feelings for my ex and the thought of not being with him makes me cry and i havent been with him for a month and i still love him soo much :( and my my current boyfriend i love to and hes amazing and sweet even tho my friends dont like him i dont care. if feel like sometimes if i had the chance i would leave my current boyfriend for my ex which is terrible and i dont wanna do but does that mean i dont really love him ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2010): Hey there,
I have had these kinds of feelings with two men. Even after marriage (love marriage) I love my husband but likes another person too. But I know that eventually I will LOVE only my husband and may or may not keep liking the other.
But in all these cases I knew I was not not in real love but one feeling was matured than the other. Sometimes, it has happened that I liked two people with the same intensity because one had a likeable personality and the other had some hobby, background etc that I was in love with. But then you instinct helps you to chose whose best for you. You shut down the other as a person you just like.
Trust your instincts!
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