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Is it possible to find a man who really cares and he's not just after sex? How do you know when a guy is not a waste of time?

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Question - (19 September 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 August 2007)
A female Spain, Astrid writes:

I have a simple question...about opinion on love life

Is it possible to find a man who really cares and he's not just after sex and in addition you like him and care about too? Is it a question of not being too picky maybe? Why is it hard not to find such a good situation all the time? How do you know you're not wasting while waiting for the real love instead of sleeping around of just getting engaged with a 'good bloke' you don't find interesting or sexy at all?

love

Astrid

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2007):

I think that if he really cares about you then he doesn't want sex he just wants to be with you and talk to you. he cares about how you are feeling and always wants to make you happy.

sex sometimes can actually hurt the relationship cuz then that's what they are dependent upon and they lose sight on what really matters, you and not the sex.

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A female reader, helpful girl United Kingdom +, writes (20 September 2006):

helpful girl agony auntlife is so hard in everything! and the way to find a man you find sexy no matter how long it takes well step 1 you find a sexy man his intrested in you make him chase you (by not being with him just being freinds no kissing nor hugging) then adventually if his still there several months/weeks later you know his really intrested so ye give him ago! if he leaves then always follow them steps always make them chase you if they stick around you know their intrested in you not just sex! if thjey dont screw them!

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