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*urseBetty85
writes:Hey Everyone.I'm a Proud BBW, single in the dating game. I'm starting to feel bad because I've been turning down alot of men. I know I have a strong preferrence, I try to hold back on it. I like to give all men a chance. Since I was a BBW in High School, I always dated the Jock, the real cute boys etc.. And even now at the age of 24, I seem to have that same mind. Now being a BBW in the dating market is not easy. I often feel like alot of average or below average guys go for the Big Girls.All my friends tell me that my ex-boyfriends look like they just stepped off the cover of "G.Q." Magizine or a sexy Male Calender. I do admit I go for the handsome guys and 90percent of the time they are ASSHOLES! But I feel good and happy being with them.SO, I want to know should BBW'S go for anyone that finds us attactive or should we live up to our personal standards? I feel like I'm being shallow for the type of men I'm attacted to. Give me some input on this one, I don't want to turn down the right man of my dreams.Thank You!Nursebetty85
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reader, NurseBetty85 +, writes (20 January 2009):
NurseBetty85 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hello,
Thanks for your advice everyone. You helped me out
big time. Being a BBW and dating can be rockey at
sometimes and you end up with "Handsome Bastards" lol.
Thanks Once Again!
NurseBetty85
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reader, SmoothCoffee64 +, writes (19 January 2009):
 Hi,I am also a BBw 40+ has been all my life. I'm pretty and attractive,and that could be a curse. Because, It seem to attract knuckle heads. Men are under the impression that big girl are fun and easy. Not true!We have hopes and dreams and standard of meeting someone who is nice and respect us for who we are. It take a true man to except you for who you are. Not worried about what someone may think like his boys (friends). So, never lower you standards or settle for less.Cause your beautiful from the in side and out.you go girl,Smooth CoffeeP.S. God, has blessed me with a very nice guy for 11 years. I know there is someone out there specially for you.
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reader, MutantKitten  +, writes (19 January 2009):
 Substance is very important, but don't think that by only dating attractive men you're being shallow. For a relationship to work, there has to be attraction too, right? Always live up to your personal standards! You won't be happy otherwise. Good looking nice guys are harder to find than good looking jerks, but they are out there, don't give up!
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