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writes: Is it always so black and white when getting back with an ex? Every situation can be different right? If you contacted an ex a year later and left a vmail and they called you back right away and you explained mistakes and regrets etc and they said it would be like starting over and they don't want something serious right now---is it still a positive sign to talk a few times a week for an hour, 2 hours on the phone? Its a step compared to no contact at all to see what may unfold in the next few months? I don't plan on sticking around forever if things don't slowly move forward. A close friend said that he is probably treading very very lightly to make sure the mistakes that caused the breakup such as unncessary arguments wouldn't occur again and maybe to see if i had changed. She thinks he is open to the possibility which is why we are talking 2 times a week rather than once a month or every so often especially if he isn't the type to "need" to speak to someone and is fine by himself. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2009): I think this person saying they do not want something serious, is a gentle way of letting you know that they are not that intested. Sorry to say that!!!
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