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Is he trying to get me back so he can use me again?

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Question - (7 November 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 7 November 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid

I was with a guy for 2 years, but he never acknowledged me as gf, as far as he is concerned i am his sex buddy/bed mate/fwb but i was in love with him totally and the sad part is he knows that. He cheated on me few times with sex workers. Recently he cheated on me with a girl, one night stand when he went to Los vegas with his friends and he was happy that he can still pick up girls for one night stand. He told me about that adventure on my b'day when he called me to wish.

I believe that made me realise i never even exist for him other than whenver he wants to have sex. I broke up with him. He didnt respond back anything, probably thought i am spineless so ill come crawling back again, which i did few times in the 2 years.

This time i am not going back, even if it kills me and he is keep on calling me for the past few days. Do anyone think he is again trying to get me back to use me again, if so then y did he treat me so cruelly before.

Even though i broke up i dont know how to move on. I dont have much freinds, i am always a loner. Please help me.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (7 November 2011):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntAdd my name to that list (probably a lengthy one) of people who WILL TELL YOU that he'd like to get back to you to use your for sex yet again....

C'mon.... buckle down... shoulders square... look in the mirror and say, "Sh*t, I'm 'way too good for that a**hole, and am LOTS better off alone and by myself than I would be being used by him, yet again...."

Good luck....

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