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anonymous
writes:I received a message from my ex boyfriend saying he was watching a film afew days ago and it made him think about me.he also asked me if i remembered when we watched it at my house,and said we were " pre-occuppied " with other things when it was on !.He also asked if i have a boyfriend at the moment ?.I'm only online for a while now but i might post more about this soon,i just wanted to ask what you think of this message he sent me for now,and how do you think i shoud respond ?.To be honest,i would like us to get back together.I'm not sure if he is asking to be friendly,or if he wants me back !.Do you think i should say i think of him sometimes with certain films, and should i admit that i don't have a boyfriend ?.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2009): just take it slow and also don't be too hasty to start off where you guys ended. and also be honest with yourself and don't forget why you 2 broke up in the fist place. if you have a second chance with him, then work on the relationship right from the start. and do things differently . you have hindsight now so please learn the lessons from the previous time you 2 were together.
good luck and post and let us know how the date went.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2009): he sent me another message and he wants to meet up !.i've said i would, but i'm nervous !!.we haven't arranged a time yet though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2009): i told him that certain things reminded me of him too.i didnt see any harm in it, as he said the same thing.and i told the truth and said i didnt have a boyfriend.He hasnt been back online yet so he hasn't seen my message but i'll let you know what happens.I wondered why he had to bring up that we were " pre-occuppied " during the film too ?!.lol.I will keep things friendly with him though and wont rush into anything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2009): It sounds like he wants to reconnect...to what degree, I'm not sure!
Yes, I would be honest about your situation. Tell him the truth. Don't play head games.
I would, however, take it slow and easy. Don't be too anxious, or ready to start where you left off. Let it be a new beginning!
Good Luck!
Britt
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reader, Ashtarochi +, writes (29 May 2009):
Just start off by being friends with him again and then see where that goes. The fact that something that you "did" together made him think about you and contact you is a good sign but don't jump into anything too quickly. Take it one step at a time. Start by inviting him for a chat over coffee or something and see where that goes. =)
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