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writes:Hi, I am in a bit of restlessness, I am a virgin and not had sex yet. One day I went to a party a sort of family function. It was out of station so we hired 2 to three rooms. we slept there. There was an aunty around 54 sleeping near me and I wasn't bothered. While sleeping I always use light clothes. So once I was sleeping I found my private part touching her body lower region. I was wondering how it had happened. It was not a big thing but I am not able to forget it and feel restless as it comes in my mind and feel shameful. What should I do so that it doesn't tease me,,, Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2007): You seem to be caught in a mental trap the more shame you feel the harder it is the forget and the harder it is to forget the more shame you feel. The only advice I can think of is to focus your thoughts on something else. Maybe friends or hobbies, some kind of activity that you enjoy. Other than that I don't know if you're religious or not but maybe praying could help.
Also realize that you didn't actually do anything. Your part was touching her while you slept, people have no control over what happens to their bodies while asleep.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007): Oh gosh, you aren't one of those pro-incest people we have been getting on the site, lately, are you?? My thoughts? Get a grip. You know what I am going to say to you. You are an adult, who's hormones are out of whack. So realize that your mindset is controlled by the self-involved act of just sexualizing everyone and everything that comes across your path. So you have to get this under control. Because if you don't, you stand to damage your life and the lives of your family members. One of the mature things about being an adult, dear? We use self-control. And here is the kicker... you have a choice. Choose to focus on some other person, like a pretty young female you like (non-related) and want to have a love relationship, with.
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