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writes: Would like to try anal sex. I'm a 50 year old woman.Been told it best to have an enema first because it can help to relax the muscles. What is the best position for me to try? Only tried on all fours with no luck. The tip of the penis only went in. Advice please.
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reader, rainbowshoes +, writes (12 May 2005):
i have that problem sometimes and have found that a good set of 'butt plugs' help to get the anus more relaxed and used to having something in there, try ann summers, also use plenty!!!! of lube and go gently trust me its worth it! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2005): Hmmm, anal is so not for everyone, but if you really want to try it, it is more than a 1 shot deal, you really should practice it several times to get use to relaxing your anal muscles. It is totally in the relaxing area that does make it or break it. Once the head is through then it is all good after but your partner must be told how hard and fast to move so as not to hurt you. It does take a while to actually get ust to it. Try a glass of wine or even 2 at first, that usually helps and oh wait till you are in the heat of your passion b4 you attempt. It is always easier when you are at that point. I have p[racticed anal for several years and when i first started i really had a hard time due to the size of the penis, that also matters in this area, the smaller the better. Good Luck
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