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writes:I have a insecurity problem that is starting to control my life, I find so many faults I think my breast’s are too small I think my eyes are too big I think my lips are too big I think my hair is too long but I look ugly when I have it short I think im too skinny I think my nose is flat, I feel like I need to be perfect and I want a lot of surgery my mum thinks im crazy and joking and I don’t know who else to turn too. My friends and the guys I have dated cannot stand me anymore, I do receive compliments and I have never been turned down, even with that I have NO CONIFDENCE in myself everywhere I go I think everyone is staring at me so I walk with my head down, I cannot make friends with having these problems. This is a real issue for me and it is NOT for attention. I have been through some hard times in my life when I was tweleve I was raped, my dad left when I was 4 and I recently found out I have fourteen other siblings !I don’t know what to do anymore?Any advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009): Hun please go and see your doctor,I was diagnosed with a mental condition called body dysmorphia and from reading your post it sounds like you might have it too.
basically body dysmorphia is a condition that makes a perfectly attractive person see flaws in there appearance that are not really there,sufferers focus on the certain parts of there body and think they are disgusting even though they are not,it doesnt matter how much somebody tells you that you are wrong because you just cant see it and want to get them "fixed"with surgery.Like me a lot of people that have this condition get mistaken for being vain as we constantly focus on our apperance,over groom ourselves etc.Go see your doctor who will be able to prescribe medicatation,refer you for counselling or hypnotherapy to help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009): Have confident.you can have friends and be loved only if you let people see you for who you are, inside and out.The other thing ,you must consider seeing a conseler because you have been through a lot.BE BLESSED.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009): go see a psychologist. seriously. you're obviously very attractive if you've never been turned down, so you have a real problem.
if your parents wont go for it, try talking to them or a trusted adult such as a teacher, etc.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009): Hi my dear u musnt be hard on ur self.i also had been in the same situation but,what i have learned is to love and acept myself the way i am and you should do the same. Acept yourself.you are beutiful.
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reader, OGMC082293 +, writes (15 April 2009):
OGMC082293 is verified as being by the original poster of the question And i think this is more of a relationship issue i cannot make friends or have a relationship anymore !
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