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writes:Ok, here's the deal. I've had a boyfriend for the past 6 months now. He's amazing and sweet and I know he really cares about me. His last girlfriend died in a car accident two years ago and I'm the first person he's completely opened up to. I was perfectly happy with him... until I met Tim. My second cousin got really sick and I had to leave town and stay with her, because her parents are stuck abroad. I visited her in the hospital regularly and eventually met Tim, one of her friends. He showed me around town and seemed interested, but I made it very clear I have a boyfriend, so he immediately pulled back. Time passed, and I unwittingly got closer with him. I've only known him for a couple of weeks, but there's just something about him... when he's close to me I fell like my heart will pierce my chest, to the point where it hurts. Nobody's ever made me feel this way before and being with him... it just feels right. One night we talked about my relationship and he noted that my boyfriend and I are very different and I can't really be myself around him. This is true somewhat, beacuse if he hates something, it's seeing women cry. So I try to avoid him seeing me sad or afraid, and Tim said that it will never work if I can't be my true self. Unlike with him, where he makes me feel so spontanious, I yell when I fell like it and I laugh when I fell like it. I've never had this sence of freedom until I met him. I'm not sure who made the first move, but that night Tim and I kissed for the first time. My cousin's feeling better, so they should let her out of the hospital soon. When that happens, I must leave Tim and everything that's happened behind. But he won't let me. Since that kiss he insists that I stay with him, because he feels a connection with me that he's never felt before. I don't know what to do, my boyfriend's done so much for me and been trhough a lot on his own, I don't want to cheat on him or break his heart and I do have feeling for him, not to mention a life back home. But Tim... I just feel this magnetism between us. He makes me feel like anything's possible and I'm actually considering to leave everyone I know and move in with my cousin. I haven't known Tim for that long, but there's no denying what I'm feeling for him. I have to make a decision soon and I'm not sure which is the rigth one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2010): I would take a break from both of them and take time to think rationally and make a proper decision. No one but you can make this decision. Don't do anything rash, though. If you really "love" them, take some time away from BOTH of them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2010): here is what i would do wait and see what happens with your bf and if u dnt think it wont work then go with Tim i have been thow what you are going thow so thats what i would do.if u need anything else jst message me
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